Showing posts with label Akad Nikah. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Akad Nikah. Show all posts

Thursday, November 17, 2011

Akad Nikah Attire

Indah jugak masuk ofis awal.
Ofis start kol 9 pagi. sekarang 8.30 tepat da smpai ofis. Siap dah breakfast dari rumah.
Hebat kan? Something that i never do for all this while. Haha.
I always arrive office on time or slightly 10 mins late? :p
Sekarang kan share 1 keter ke tempat kjr, so suami hantar i dulu.
Walaupon i dah offer nak hantar dia luh, tp dia taknak. Sebab dia masuk 8.30 pagi.
Hurms so dia lambat sket smpai i plak terawal. Camner tuh.

Anyway, arini tentang akad nikah attire.
Attire by Nik Erwan Roseli.
Ingat post yang lepas?
Lepas dah decide nak color apa, i msg few bloggers asked for how many meter for the materials that they bought for their attire.
Thanks to Miss Yuyu and Sab yang baik melayan email saya.
So carikla kat kedai beli.
It's my first time buy lace and chiffon by myself.
I have the idea in my mind like how it suppose to be, but not sure if the designer able to do it or not.

The drama
The materials really pretty, and i feel the execution can be improved better if the designer put much effort on it.
But to my disappointment, it was herms almost become disaster.
I had 5x fitting with the designer - and imagine i had to travel from kelana jaya (which famously known for it's terrible jam at LDP after work) to shah alam for so many time just to make sure it was perfect to my body.
The last fitting, i gave up and just said ok to it - with deep disappointment inside.
I send to a tailor - ask to alter it a bit - make it loose, because the designer make it too fitted.
No, im not gain any weight at all, In fact, i lose weight.
I dun understand y the designer make it too tight at the first fitting.
Isn't any designer shud know that first fitting, shud make it loose - 2nd fitting, shud be better.
Even the chinese tailor told me, it was bad executed, and takkan the designer tak fikir this is for akad nikah, which i have to duduk bersimpuh kat bawah. If duduk, pakai ketat2, memang seksa la badan kan.
If the chinese tailor can think like dat, isn't it weird the designer not be able to think the same way?
Hurms, but i redha. Benda dah berlaku.

Yaps, i shud be thankful for at least he still wants to alter it.
Even tho he keeps on cancel our appointment.
Sorry to say, but we really had bad experience with him.
Perhaps i shud say im a blogger from the very beginning, and maybe he will treat me nicer?

Maybe other people have great experience with him, but for us, it's almost become a nightmare.
Actually the outcome not like wut you see in the picture.
I dah tangalkan beading yang pelik n nampak weird.
Bayangkan i tak boleh tido bila tengok beading yang berserabut.
So i decided to tanggalkan the beading and make it simple just like dat.
Yes, at the end, the attire looks nice and pretty altho i knew i cant fit into that anymore after this since it was too fitted to my body.

The veil
I have to ask my other designer to alter it since i dah nak muntah darah deal with him.
I tak kisah if nak patch lace kat bahagian atas, tapi make it nicer. Ni bila i tgok pon, herms i rasa sedih.
Nak taknak terpaksa make pity face ask my other designer to help to alter it.
Nasib baik my other designer baik sangat nak tolong.
Actually for akad nikah, i nak simple ajerh tp cantik.
Pastuh tgok gambar2 baju kat FierNawal i rasa sedih sbb they can execute better.
The materials lebih kurang sama, tp bayangkan FierNawal yang baru bertapak kurang setahun pon mampu buat lebih cantik.

Anyway, benda dah lepas.
Im sorry i terpaksa ceritakan jugak. Ambil masa yang lama untuk i decide nak cerita or tak.
Sebab i rasa ni memang betul2 satu penganiayaan.
I hope other brides 2 be berhati2 dlm memilih designer yang betul.
Ni kisah betul.
Mungkin orang lain menerima layanan yang sempurna dan tak seteruk saya.

Nanti, bila dah sedia, i akan sewakan untuk sesiapa yang berminat kie.
Sekarang i tgh busy. hehe

p/s: I really had GREAT experience working with the other designer. Macam langit dan bumi layanan yang diberikan padahal harga lebih kurang je for all attires. Itu i ceritakan di entry seterusnyerh ok. :)

Baju akad nikah yang akhirnyerh cantik jugak di badan dengan 1001 cerita di belakang.
5x fitting with the designer, 1x altered by tailor, veil altered by other designer.
I still feel the outcome can be nicer if the execution can be improve. wuwuu. takperla benda dah lepas.

I taknak mengaibkan sesiapa dalam hal ni. Tapi pengalaman yang i lalui sangat menyakitkan.
It's something that i have forgive but i can never forget.
Yang penting i taknak other brides to be lalui apa yang i lalui.
Sebab i tau susah nyerh kita semua bekerja keras mencari rezeki halal and we want the best for our wedding.
Yet, we've been treated like this.

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Bertunang - akad nikah ceremony (overall)

Plan bertunang dan bernikah pada hari yang sama dah lama dirancang oleh husband.
Taknak buat majlis bertunang awal sbb nak save budget on unnecessary.
Plus kitorg dah lama kawan so dats y hanya buat merisik saja before.

Tapi tak semua bersetuju dengan rancangan ini.
Apapon atas sokongan keluarga, alhamdulillah akhirnya berjaya diteruskan.
Yang penting masa. Aturcara memang telah dirancang dari awal supaya tak kelam kabut.
Kena punctual and sharp. Jika ada terlari jerh masa ni sure akan lari segala2 yang dirancang.

So kat sini part MC memainkan peranan penting supaya semua berjalan lancar dan tepat pada masanyerh.
Juga pengantin kena aware dengan timing.
Di bawah ni aturcara untuk majlis tunang-akad nikah, saya add on sekali timing saya supaya b2b dpt estimate time secukup nya untuk bersiap.


Color tema

Color tema untuk family suppose to be soft peach. Tp 2 kakak saya yg degil memakai bright peach. huhu takperla. malas nak paksa orang pakai color yg kita mahu. Untuk perkahwinan, saya memang gemarkan sesuatu yang lembut sahaja. Pastel colors. Perkahwinan kan suatu yang suci. Huhu. Jadi sbb tuh saya suggest color yang lembut untuk pakai. Dekor takper. Apapon in pics the colors still looks rhymes. Ala takkan la pasal color saya mahu bermasam muka kan? There are certain things that i just let it go and let it be as it is. Bagi saya jika ahli keluarga saya dapat berkumpul 1 time and dapat sama2 tolong2 untuk majlis kahwin saya pon, saya dah bersyukur. Setakat color yang tak berapa rhymes, saya tak berapa kisah. Yang penting parents saya and adik2 saya yg single saya pakai color soft peach. Huhu.

Tiada sebarang color tema untuk sedara mara/friends sbb tak mahu menyusahkan mereka.
Cukupla susah kan keluarga sendiri. hiks.

For keluarga mentua, saya suggest color purple untuk mereka.
Sama seperti tadi, hanya adik beradik/parents saja yang pakai purple. 


Akad nikah
Alhamdulillah, dengan sekali lafaz, kami bergelar suami isteri.
Muka alip serius giler. haha. comel jer tgok.

Terima kasih tak terhingga pada parents saya yang bersusah payah menyiapkan tentang urusan catering, khemah dan doorgifts untuk majlis akad nikah ni. Juga kepada sedara mara especially makcik2 yg datang 3 days b4 untuk tolong macam2.

Perihal pelamin akad nikah, baju, makeup dan lain2 akan direview di lain entry ya?
Now, enjoy all this pretty pics during the ceremony.




 Bertunang




Akad Nikah

 
To be honest, saya tak rasa cuak sgt time ni. More to excited. ahaha. gatal.


Dengan adik bongsu sebagai peneman di sisi
Bukan korek idung tau. :p Last minute pon sempat discuss. ahaha
  









Sekali lafaz. :)








 








with family members in peach


with in laws family in purple

with friends


kalau buat byk dosa kat parents, begini la rupanyerh. sebak semacam. :p



All pics from my OP: Foto by Razali and some of them from my cousin's camera.
Love all the pics!

Banyak lagi gambar2 dari camera OP and camera2 member and sedara mara tak letak sini.
since byk lagi review insyaAllah akan digunakan untuk entry yang lain kie.

Majlis saya sederhana, dekor pon sederhana. Tapi saya suka sangat segalanya. Seperti mimpi, kami dah berkahwin. 

Bila majlis akad nikah berjalan dengan lancar, hati lega dan lapang. Allah je yang tahu. Alhamdulillah.
Takper jika anda rasa anda bridezilla. Yang penting on the day itself, baca doa and just enjoy every moment.
 :)

p/s: Cerita tentang bridezilla, saya mmg jadi bridezilla 2 days b4 akad nikah. hiks tp part tuh di lain entry kie.
muahs~