Being wife.

Arini rehat dari update pasal review leh?

hehe sajer nak buat entry santai.
Sekarang pukul 2.26am and i still havent sleep trying my best to complete my freelance job.
Selepas balik dari honeymoon, mmg tader masa lapang lagi.

I think honeymoon is the only time hubby and i stay away from our laptop and we able to spend our quality time together.

After back to malaysia, we received alot of emails related to works. pheww.

Just what we expected.
So sorry if ramai email past few weeks and i lambat reply k.

Tp still susah nyerh la bila mood rehat nak tukar tune buat kjr.
I only have time to unpack our clothes properly and put into cupboard last week.
Which is a week after i totally recover from my illness- demam n batuk.

Tong gas tak bli lagi. Plan nak beli Ahad tp tunda lagi sbb both of us stuck with pile of jobs.

Sabtu sekarang i alternate kjr.
But husband being helpful on houseworks. Alhamdulillah.

Pergi rumah mentua pon dapat tolong mentua masa waktu makan jer la.

Tolong masak n after masak.

After dat stuck in da room try to finish our freelance works again.
Atho mother in law understand our situation but i still feel bad.

Harap situation ni sementara. Husband is sleeping n i cant sleep next to him rite now because if i do, tak dpt la submit kjr mlm ni. wuwuu.

Takper knr be strong. Ramai lagi pasangan yg PJJ as well yang laki bini kjr lain shift kan?
Plus mcm2 dugaan yg setiap orang alami.

Yang penting husband n wife kena saling tolong menolong.
Thats wut we remind each other everyday.

Skrg ni mmg pegang pada motto 'Bersusah2 dulu, bersenang2 kemudian'. :)

Sebelom ada baby bekerja keras la. Nanti da ada baby, takya la struggle sebegini. hihi

ok la boii
nway congrats to all pretty brides who just got married last weekend. :)

It's scary how it turns out to be...

Tinggal 3 hari je sebelum majlis.
Time tuhla orang2 katering tanyer betul ker color yang kitorg pilih ni untuk skirting and alas meja?
Naper macam pelik?
Why pink instead of green?
Then somebody gave instruction to them change to ugly dark green.
and i like dun have any strengths to object.

Then on the day of my big day, i received a phone call from my pelamin vendor, she said she couldn't make it on time.
She cancel on me last minute and wants to return all my money back because she had no confidence to do it.
I became a bridezilla crying and begging her to please just come and do her best and i dun mind at all if it turns out nice or not.
How could this happen to me on last minute?
Nobody can ruin my day like dat.
Then suddenly my parents blame me for choosing the vendor.

It was a big mess and i felt like hiding sumwhere and crying.

Luckily...
it was just a DREAM.
I wake up and thinking for awhile so it just a dream.
A bad dream. My wedding still 7 more months to come.

Omigod it feels so real.
Do you guys dreams all this weird things before your big day? :(

Sepakat membawa berkat

Last weekend g wedding cousin di JB.
What i respect the most are their family values and spirit. hihihi
Adik beradik dorg sangat la rajin.
Sanggup tukar heels to flat je ok menjelang petang sbb yerla turun naik pusing 1 dewan.

Adik dia jugakla yang menjaga tol n terror plak tu.
Tahukan adat di jb ada tol2 ni.
Dorang kahwin serentak.
Lebey kurang aku la nanti bila belah Alip.
So penpaham la kalau kahwin serentak ni, penat dia confirm berganda.
But i can say, the event went well.
Food sedapp especially the drinks. We had fun drank all of them :p.

 

Adik beradik rajin bersama kakak ipar baru dan abg ipar baru. huhu.

 Pelamin ni cantik okie. Nampak luas dewan.

Yeah it's great if able to have pretty pelamin.
It's great to wear some designer's outfit.
It's great to have beautiful wedding.
But nothing compare to have great family spirit - help each other tanpa berkira.
3 hari berturut2 ok wedding dorg ni. Aku boleh rasakan penat dorg tak hilang lagi.
Yerla dulu aku sama2 bersusah payah untuk wedding akak2 aku. Jadi aku pahamla penat nyerh cmner.

To cousin dearie, congrats for your wedding~

Pak Long said u both looks great together. :)
Mak Long and I couldn't agree more. :p

 

 Takder gambar bersama pengantin sobs sbb iphone abes battery and camera mak abh pon abes battery jd ada gambar gedik ngn rakan saja yang sempat saya snap. hehe. Ohs kebetulan rakan adalah rakan kepada cousin juger. Kecik tau dunia ni. Hehe

Dorg pon ada guestbook. Tp cousins beli kot.
If korg nak buat, DIY la kie. Tp kalo tak cukup masa beli saja dong.

Sama sangat ke?

Dari la awal couple smpai la sekarang, dah immune sangat bila dengar comments like:-

"Muka korang samerla!"
"Muka rai macam muka alip version pakai tudung"
"Haha muka korang samala bulat"
"Korang ni macam adik-beradik la muka"
"Wah muka korg sama sure jodoh korang panjang"
"Korang ni muka sama memang meant for each other"

Aku sengih ajerh. Bagi aku bila orang cakap cmni, means ini adalah doa untuk jodoh kami. Setiap kata2 kan merupakan doa. Haha aku takder masalah. Suka je dengar all the comments.

Tp muka sama tak semesti semuanyer smooth ok. Tak semesti tak bertekak bergado smerk.
We still sumtimes fight for stupid matters.
I guess that's normal rite?

Ok cter hari ini ialah apabila teman kan dia n bakal mak mentua ke butik kawen untuk survey pelamin2 kat area rumah dia.
Actually dah suruh dier pergi jer dengan mak dia tp dia suruh jugak ikut sebab dier tak reti sangat nak explain kat mak dia cmner yg kitorg discuss before this.
Takderhal, i pon join sajer.

3 butik jer pon g. Then butik last ni ada catering sekali. So lama gak lepak kat sini. Kitorg tanya macam2 soalan.

"So kak before this ada buat pelamin untuk kahwin serentak tak?"

"Ada. So awak 2 la ni pasangan adik-beradiknyer?"

"Eh tak la. Dia saja" <-- Jawapan aku memang tak memberansangkan kan? Hahaha. Aper ntah aku jawab.

"Ohs maksudnya dia sorang je. Lagi sorang adik beradik nya takder?"

"Haahs"

"So awak ni adik nyer?"

"Eh tak. Saya dengan dia la" <-- Abestuh takkan aku nak jawab saya gf dia. So childish to answer like that in front of bakal mak mentua duduk sebelah kanan ni. Tuhla tak bertunang kan susah kalau tak senang aku jawab ni tunang saya abes cter.

Alip yang pening ngn conversation tuh pon interrupt; "Saya kawin ngn dia nanti. Yang lagi satu pasangan tuh abang saya takder kat sini"

"Ohsss laaaa saya ingat kan awak berdua adik beradik. Muka sama sangattttt."

"So mana satu anak makcik?"

"Yang ni." <-- Bakal mak mentua dah gelak2 smbil tunjuk Alip.

"Dia ni pandai memang cari yang muka sama"

"Saya pon ingat adik beradik lagipon biasa nya kalau tengok pelamin jarang bawak bakal menantu sekali"

Muka akak tu masih tercengang mengkaji persamaan muka aku n alip agaknyer.

Demm. Semua salah alip tau. :p
Malu aku dah nak meneruskan kata2.
Aku rasa muka aku da blushing ker haper ntah time tuh.
Masalahnyerh Alip insist me to join.
Her mom dun mind n i said ok je la.
Lagipon akak, ni kan 2011.
Normal kan if bakal menantu visit the families for both side.
Nanti takder la kekok sangat terkejut nk masuk family baru.
Kena la get to know each other from now.
Kata orang bila kita kahwin, kita kahwin dengan keluarga dia sekali.
Lagipon ni first time aku keluar ngn bakal mak mentua bersama2.
I think ramai jerh antara korg yang memang lagi selamba kan ngn keluarga bakal mentua?

Takper nanti nak tengok gambar kahwin betul ker sama sangat muka smpai strangers pon confuse.
Tak kuasa nak cari gambar bersama2 upload kat sini sbb takder gambar terbaru.
Lagipon kat sidebar pon ada gambar kitorg.
Sama ker?
I mean sangat sama ker? hahahaha